Your Man Won't Claim You On Social Media, What Do You Do?

We live in a time where people tend to share every aspect of their lives with social media. You've probably posted memes subliminally directed towards your beau, maybe a photo of his hand, you know, just a little something to show you have a man but still keep a little for yourself. You're ready to take things to the next level and you post your mate as your #MCM but when Wednesday rolls around for him to return the favor what happens?

Nothing.

So now you have a dilemma on your hands. It was no issue for you to tell the world that you are in love, why can't he do the same? You begin to overanalyze the situation, searching through comments on his pics for evidence that he's cheating, waiting for him to leave his phone unlocked so you can check his DMs. What's really going on? Why won't he claim you?

Here's The Worst Case Scenario..

He wont claim you because claiming you will blow up his spot with his other girls: Yes ma'am, your man is a hoe. Sorry you had to find out this way but either you're his side chick, or you're one of many other chicks. He's afraid that if he posts you, all of his other chicks will know he has a girl. Then he'll have to explain to them why he's a dirty dog, and the risk just isn't worth it. If he does post you, he posts you late (or early) when no one will see, then quickly deletes the evidence before his main chick wakes up. He's' sneaky and can't be trusted, but what's new these days, right?

Best Case Scenario...

He's just a private person: Don't confuse being private with being secretive. A private person has let it known that he is in a relationship, but just does not feel it is necessary to share every aspect with it with the world. He'll probably post little things here and there, letting the world know that you are his special someone, but don't expect your mug to bombard his timeline. He's not trying to hide you, he's trying to keep a piece of you to himself. 

So, how do you wipe the egg off of your face and ask him about what's going on? The answer? You just do. Find out what his excuse is. If he says that he is private, and seems sincere enough, it's most likely the truth. If you feel that he is lying, no one knows your bae better than you, he probably is. At that point, don't subject yourself to any more embarrassment. Pack your bag and get moving.

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