The Types Of Women Who Need To Be Single

For too long, I've been noticing too much unhealthy, hasty rebounding in dating.  Some women even jumping into new relationships before the last one even ended.  Trying to uphold a facade to guise their frail egos.

Suppressing insecurities brings it to the surface stronger in the long run.  Sweeping it under the carpet makes an even bigger mess.

Family, friends, society, and the media have brainwashed us to think that being single is wrong.  Being single isn't a plague.  Nor is it a transition.  It is simply a part of life.

Understand that there is a process to everything.  It was a process for you to get into the relationship; it'll be a  process for you to get out of it.

Being single keeps you from hurting others as well.  Remember, it's not about you.



1. Women With Daddy Issues

Most fatherless women tend to have a deep rooted hatred for men, in general.  Otherwise they may lack a healthy respect for men and their gender roles in the relationship.  This is mainly because they've never been shown this growing up; and for the most part...they really can't help it.  By the time they're old enough to date, they're pretty set in their ways.

2. Women Who Don't Understand Men

This can also encompass fatherless women, as well.  Men are very simple, yet they may to too simple for these type women to accept.  And if a woman hasn't been acclimated to sharing living space with a man in the course of her life, or having the temperament for a man's peculiarities...she's at a grave disadvantage.

3. Women With Abandonment Issues

Neediness, or cling-iness, is NEVER healthy.  Being in a relationship with a woman like this makes cuddling a chore, as opposed to it being an organic experience.  Constant surveillance of that partner is another exhibited behavior.  Suspecting the worst, cheating, leaving, etc.  You can't compete with the mind of someone who lives on fear.  Nothing you do will be good enough; simply because their thought process will continually loophole them into negativity.

4. Women Who Thirst For Attention

Oh boy, the "social network thirst trappers"!  Bathroom selfie after thousands of bathroom selfie.  How can you possibly expect to take a woman like this seriously in a committed relationship.  She doesn't want attention from her man; she wants attention from men, period.  Now, she may crossover into either of the categories mentioned above, yet regardless, there needs to be a degree of couth, class, decorum, and discretion when considering a mate.  After all, why would you want to be with someone who wants to be with everyone else?

5. Relationship Addicts

Above, I mentioned how those types of women ought to be single.  However, in most instances, they already are.  Women who are relationship addicts are the biggest problem.  I discuss them more in depth in my article "Relationship Addicts and The Cure" (click here).  We've all known or may have been a relationship addict at one time or another...and may not have realized it. smh  But if you know a woman who is relationship addict, you know they are NEVER-ever single.  They're constantly rebounding, and always have some kind of man in their face.  And I don't mean a fling.  I mean, they're thoroughly engulfed around this man...EVEN IF IT'S NOT A RELATIONSHIP.  Relationship addicts have this superficial agenda of where they want to be in "X" amount of years, and whomever man they're with tends to become an accessory to them as opposed to a commodity.  HE'S REPLACEABLE.  Now, this interchangeability doesn't serve as a credit to their status, but an indictment to their vanity, and superficiality.



It's Not A Curse

If you're one of these women, take out the time to find your identity.  There's someone for everyone, but consider the health of the relationship.  Almost any woman can get a man, but what quality of men are you getting.

Ultimately, no one likes to be alone.  But know yourself, so you can know what works for you.  And if it doesn't work, then don't force it.

...just be single.

"Invest in the brand!"