DISCUSSION: "FELLAS!!! What's Your BIGGEST Turn Off?" by Kevin Ferere @KEVINFERERE
DISCUSSION...moments later
Caletha KiKi Jay Jackson:
"I am none of those things but I have found that if you don't have kids and work at night those can also be turn offs to men as well.... A lady once told me that I have doomed myself to the single life because I have already built a home and have a career ... And all I could say was well we will just have to wait and see want we lol."
ME (Kevin Ferere):
"Well Caletha, that's peculiar point you make. Sort of a catch-22.
Your supposed to take care of yourself...even before your kids (THINK ABOUT IT). If you can't take care of yourself, how can you take care of kids?
Now when it comes to being courted and attracting certain types of men when you show a sense of self sufficiency....
Many times the "Independent Black Woman" is synonymous with the "Bitter Black Woman", but we must give the benefit of the doubt that there are ambitious women who are actually easy going.
We live in an increasingly fatherless generation of young black men who lack the notion of what it means for a man to have ambition and "grit"; who tend to still have "their mother's tittie in their mouths". So prospecting a woman who possesses the characteristics they lack may appear as an indictment of the sort. Instead of wanting to take care of a woman, they seek a woman who can take care of them. They are what I like to call "momma-made men".
Hence forth, a woman like yourself, who is too heavily occupied to allocate time and energy for child breeding and rearing, is evidence to these kind of "man-boys" that you are a woman who lacks the potential to take care of them and attach your tittie to their mouths in the same fashion that their stereotypical single mothers did. #kanyeshrug"
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