"Married with Children": The BIGGEST Reason You Should Get Married
Many people have glanced at my writings, ESPECIALLY my YouTube videos (click here), and have drawn the hasty conclusion that I'm, pretty much, diametrically opposed to the entire institution of what marriage is. Many of which have yet to purchase and read the "Why Should I Get Married?" portion of the Prosperity Unlimited LLC flagship literary compilation, "Leave The Fairy Tales Up To Disney": The Reality o Dating (click here); where it would've been expounded upon that the institution of marriage need not be exterminated, but reassessed. But I guess that's left to their own bereavement. #kanyeshrug
However, what I didn't delve into in the book, for the sake of not digressing, was the event of a couple having children. From my own experiences and knowledge, I have learned that having children is independent of dating, yet dating is dependent upon having children...................let me explain (stop looking at me like that). i.e. Whether you're in a relationship or not, you can fuck whomever and knock up/get knocked up by anyone fertile enough, as long as you're fertile. However, when you have children, you have to be way more mindful of WHOM you date and HOW you date. (now do you get me?)
Now understand, this post is concerning marriage, yet I generically utilize the term "dating". And that's simply because marriage is dating, with a legal contract (despite what you've been taught #letitmarinate). And I also expounded in the book (click here) on how marriage is a business. We can all accept the notion of the financial burden that having children brings upon. And when conceptualizing a business, risk and expenses must always be calculated for the sake of operations.
The legal contract of marriage is a logistical insurance package on the relationship. Now in most known cases, the processes of marriage and divorce suit the woman more than they would the man. However, it is the custodial parent whom is favored, regardless of gender. (stay with me)
When we have children, we instinctually protect them, right? Why not legally protect them? The benefits, entitlements, and tax writeoffs, for example, should prove as hefty incentives for a couple with children to make their nuptials. Not to mention, dual-parent homes are more likely to earn more for their children, and provide a more optimal environment for their children to succeed. (yep #kanyeshrug again)
But with all that said, we all have our own lives to live right? And we're gonna do what we wanna do at the end of the day anyway, right? Marriage is a legal process, so YES...it is vain. Yet, if someone wants to get married for a vain reason, THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT. Actually, while you're bullshittin', those who get married for love are the dumb ones...simply because it is a legal process (like I said, despite what you've been taught).
So there you have it folks! Be wise, and don't get yourself in anything you can't get out of. And whatever you do, whether vain or not, do it for the right reasons, WITH THE RIGHT PERSON. Your marriage is your business, and so are your children. Love your business!
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