Women and DADDY ISSUES!!! Yeah, I'm going there... by @KEVINFERERE #SWV
I think it's pretty exhausted on how a fatherless home affects a male upbringing. Irresponsibility, rebelliousness, lack of initiative/ambition, etc. Noooooow, let's address the females. I know this will be touchy, because most women don't like hearing about themselves, and can't handle honest, constructive criticism. But for the sake of this blog post, let's put on our "big gurrl drawers". So grit your teeth, squint your eyes, and clench your fist, and bare through this brief reading endeavor.
The traits I previously mentioned may easily be attributed to the female counterpart, yet in a different fashion. The irresponsibility for males, mainly being towards familial responsibilities, is attributed to females in sense of integrity and courtesy. Being on time, giving the other person a heads up, admitting you're wrong when you know you're wrong, etc.
Rebelliousness in females may be attributed, not to authority, but to the opposite sex, period. If a woman is brought up without any foundation in her relation to the opposite sex (how to treat a man, how men should treat women, respect and courtesy, vice versa, etc) due to abandonment or non-guidance from the opposite sex, her lack of respect is bound to evolve towards bitterness, jadedness, and frustration towards men in general. Hence the constant outburst of bad character displayed in the public and in media (ie. Maury, and bullshit Facebook statuses [you heifers know who you are]).
Let's not fail to mention the rebelliousness not only pertaining towards interactions with the men, but also with later guidance and mentor-ship from men. I mentioned earlier about women not being receptive to constructive criticism. Much of this comes from the unfamiliarity and discomfort around men. Men have a tendency for bluntness and straightforwardness that may come off as abrasive, however honest. Let's think, if women are only consulting with women about men, how are they supposed to have better dealings with men? Can an apple tree give advice about a orange tree?
One stark observation I've made is the slight progression of these women towards lesbianism. What woman would admit her deep rooted hatred towards men? If hatred is prevalent, where would intimacy reside? Exactly, it can't. And if all your familiarity is with being amongst women, then you would be more prone to experiment with a sexual and intimate partner of the same sex.
A blaring circumstance of a lacking male figure (as everyone knows already) is a low or unhealthy self esteem. Most men know to sexually target women who have never had fathers, because they know she'll be more likely to have less inhibitions, seek more attention and neediness, and be more sexually expeditious.
Now, ofcourse, this isn't consistent with every woman hailing from a fatherless upbringing. I'm not typing this post to complain or beat a dead horse, but to bring to the light and wake up those who were previously oblivious or ignorant to the demise...including men.
A solution, you ask? We'll get to that...
(ADDENDUM)
Is research necessary? Isn't this shit clear as day, glaring in the face of society? I'm well aware I stated problem void of an accompanying solution. Yet, the only way to solve a problem is by first addressing it. Now, I've never been one to beat a dead horse, nor have I done so in the written blog or the video discussion within the written blog.
The issues addressed are simply those that have either been swept under the carpet, or ignored, or even completely denied as being false. YET NO DENIAL IS SUFFICIENT TO ACCEPT THE FALLACY THAT A SINGLE PARENT HOME IS NOT A CONTRIBUTING FACTOR TO THESE DEFICIENCIES. Simply because single parenting is a contributing factor.
And don't for once think I'm not sympathetic to the plight of these people, as if I'm completely void of any shortcomings due to the co-parenting I was privileged to within my home. No one asked to be born in any situation, good or bad. But like I stated in the blog; I'm simply calling these things out for the sake of awareness and the BEGINNING to a solution.
I'm sure my content is sobering and abrasive. Yet it is poignant, substantial, effective, constructive, and productive. I could care less whether you agree with me, only as long as you understand me. Because once you understand me...YOU WILL HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO AGREE WITH ME.
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